Discrimination [Discriminatie]

As a foreigner or expat... Do you feel like you have to hide the real "you" in order to be accepted in the Dutch society ?
Your age, your flaws, your maiden's name... hide or not ? Change your hair colour, your religion, sicknesses or your sexual preferences in order to get a job/date/make new friends or just "blend" easier ?  Is it important to fit in the flat landscape - or will you end up "flattening" yourself  ? If you wish to know more about discrimination in the NL then visit: www.discriminatie.nl